You have likely heard at least one nursing home abuse horror story, making you very leery of putting a loved one in nursing home care. While nursing home abuse and neglect does occur, the good news is that there are also a number of nursing homes that provide skilled and compassionate care. You may wish to begin your search by asking friends, family members, and co-workers for a referral. Once you have a list of possible facilities or providers, do some research. Check for complaints with the Florida Agency for Healthcare Administration. Also, make a point of showing up unannounced to see how the facility operates when they are not expecting you.